I one time had my whole team rage on me in the first 30 seconds because two of the tanks charged in and died, so I just switched to mei cause I ain't about that lifestyle
I feel like if you're going to take your time to fill in the role then just do your role. If someone starts bitching, then have them play that role and if they don't want to actually fill it, but bitch, then let them be salty. You don't need to contract high blood pressure too.