On unofficial servers, do you prefer Online raid protection (ORP) on or off? If you're an idiot then just add/select an option saying "playing on official".
Theres 2 different types of players; those with jobs and other commmitments that need that extra safety net, and those either without a job/commitments that can be online alot to maintain their base or being carried by a massive tribe. So theres no definitive better option really.