It will cool down after awhile. I personally hosted mine so people could play anyway they want and have a server that stays up. I've never admin abuse but that don't mean I won't drop an angry dodo army at your doorstep. Or you log in and find a big pink heart above your characters ass crack...but that's not abuse
Ark community is nothing but a bunch of crybaby bitches. Yall wanted real dedis servers you get em and people bitch omg theres 4 servers to 1 person so does it hurt you no. Now grow a pair and get back to playing