What's the best setting on nitrado for the difficulty offset and override official difficulty I watched a few videos but they don't have the override option x
In your tribe menu, there's an icon that looks like hands shaking. Pick that, and you can create an alliance by name. Then, you just go up to the other tribe's chief and use triangle to see the options, there should be an "invite to alliance" option.
The respawn box? Tick it and restart server. After the restart, the respawn box automatically un ticks itself so you're not wiping dinos every restart.