Find a chill tribe. I literally don't care what my tribe does unless they steal each other's resources. Don't be lazy and get your own shit. Then again I play pve. Too much drama with pvp with people going under the map.
We have a few tribes on our game and several that play solo. Its all up to you and what you want to do. The solo players come join in on events and team up for big things like the overseer. But no one can use your materials or build something you didn't want.
If any of you are interested come check out my groups server. It's adults, PVE with PVP events. Build with a tribe our go solo but still have people to talk to. We have the center as the main map but scorched earth and the island are currently open